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Your Rich Life
What does 'rich' actually mean to you?
Lesson 1 of the Wondering course I Will Teach You To Be Rich
What Does Rich Mean?
What does rich actually mean to you? Most people answer with a number. That is usually the wrong place to start.
Author Ramit Sethi encourages each reader to define their own version of a rich life.
For one person, that means traveling the world. For another, owning a home. For someone else, it means the financial freedom to spend time with loved ones.

Notice that each scene is a full, happy life, yet each person is chasing something different, so no single picture of wealth fits everyone.
Same word. Very different lives.
Priorities Differ by Person
People do not value the same things. Some care most about travel. Others want security.
Some crave creative freedom, the room to make things on their own terms. Others put family time first.
- A rich life: Defined differently by each person.
- Travel: Seeing the world.
- Security: Feeling safe and stable.
- Creative freedom: Making things on your own terms.
- Family time: Time with loved ones comes first.
None of these is the correct answer. Each is a valid version of rich.
Your job is to notice which ones pull hardest on you.
Your Vision, Not a Template
A common mistake is copying someone else's idea of wealth.
A generic template treats everyone the same. It cannot know that you would trade a fancy car for a month abroad.
- Generic template
- Your vision
Your financial plan should serve your unique vision.
If it does not, you can follow every rule and still feel poor.
Define Before You Optimize
Before you cut costs or chase returns, ask a simpler question: what am I optimizing for?
Without an answer, saving becomes random. You trim things you love and keep things you barely notice.
With a clear definition, every money decision has a target.
Start by writing your rich life in a sentence or two.
- Define: Write your rich life in a sentence or two.
- Name priorities: Pick what pulls hardest: travel, security, creative freedom, or family time.
- Build the plan: Shape your spending around those priorities.
- Check the target: Ask whether each money decision serves your vision.
Spend Generously, Cut Ruthlessly
Once you know your priorities, your spending plan follows a simple rule.
Allocate generously to what makes your life rich. Cut ruthlessly everywhere else.
If travel is your thing, flights get a big slice. Spending you do not care about gets trimmed hard.
The goal is spending on purpose, so cuts land on what you will not miss.
Putting It to Work
Here is how to use this today.
Recognize it: when a money choice feels hollow, ask whose idea of rich it serves.
Explain it: a rich life is personal, so your plan should fund your vision instead of a generic one.
Act on it: name your top priorities, spend big on them, and cut what you will not miss.
Check yourself
Is there one standard definition of a 'rich life' that applies to everyone?
- Yes
- No
Answer: No
A rich life differs from person to person. For one person it might mean traveling the world; for another, owning a home, creative freedom, or time with loved ones. Each person defines their own version.
A rich life spending plan means you spend _____ on the things you love and cut _____ on the things you don't care about.
Answer: A rich life spending plan means you spend generously on the things you love and cut ruthlessly on the things you don't care about.
The plan is not about cutting everything equally. You spend generously on your true priorities and cut ruthlessly on everything else, freeing money for what matters most to you.
Maya's dream is to travel the world. A friend tells her she should save for a big house because 'that's what everyone does.' What is the best approach for Maya?
- Build her plan around funding travel
- Save for a house since most people do
- Split money evenly across all goals
- Avoid spending on travel entirely
Answer: Build her plan around funding travel
Financial planning should serve your own vision of a rich life, not a generic template. Since travel is Maya's priority, her plan should fund travel generously, even if others value home ownership more.
Keep going
This is lesson 1 of 22 in I Will Teach You To Be Rich. Next up:
- 85% Rule
- Big Wins
- Credit Cards
- Negotiate Fees
- Optimal Accounts
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